It’s a fact that hotwifing is a very, very common male fantasy. Why this is so is open to debate, but that doesn’t change the fact it’s true.
Can a hotwife marriage really work?
Or is what you read on forums and blogs just a load of old fantasy and nonsense?
Well, there’s no doubt there is a lot of nonsense out there on the Internet and only a fool would take it any other way than with a substantial pinch of salt. You have only to read some of these accounts and really think about them and it’s obvious they’re just a bunch of old codswallop (for example, how come all the boyfriends and lovers are young studs with bigger-than-average sex organs and Superman-like stamina? Don’t they ever meet any real people?).
That said, I can tell you for a fact that not only are there genuine hotwife couples out there (you’re reading an article written by the husband of a hotwife right now), but also the hotwife lifestyle can work. In fact, not only can it work but it can actually improve your marriage and bring you physically and emotionally closer.
Now, there are some people out there who say hotwifing is “wrong” or “immoral” and often cite religion as a reason. But religion is man-made and has no objective independently verifiable evidence to support its claims, so when someone is using that as a reason for other people to behave in certain ways, all they’re really doing is trying to stop others doing things they, themselves simply don’t approve of.
No, it won’t suit everyone and there’s no doubt it has caused problems for couples who have tried it and found out it wasn’t right for them. But, then, the same can be said for many things, even marriage itself.
And there are other risks, too, such as pregnancy and disease. Again, you cannot go into the hotwife lifestyle with your eyes closed and pretend they don’t exist because they most certainly do.
But to men and women who have their own minds and wish to make their own choices I say this: if your marriage and relationship is strong, and you are not bogged down with petty jealousies and insecurities then the hotwifing lifestyle can be an incredible new dimension to your marriage.
My wife, Josselyn, and I have been in the lifestyle for the past 7 years and apart from a few hiccoughs it’s been a lot of fun and has done nothing but bring us closer together. And now we’d like to share our knowledge and experience so you don’t have to make the mistakes we made – because we’ve made them for you!